In addition to the in-person service at the Graveside service at Pardes Chaim Cemetery, the funeral will also be live-streamed. To view the service virtually, please go to https://smclive.ca/ on Thursday May 1st, 2025 at 11:30 a.m.

Bernard David Kay, a loving husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, and friend, passed away on April 29, 2025, in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. He was born on July 25, 1948, to Harry and Phylis Kay in Toronto, Ontario. Bernard was a devoted husband to Shayla, a loving father to Rahel, a caring father-in-law to Rene, and a doting grandfather to River and Ronin. He was a brother to Barbara, and brother-in-law to Jack, and uncle to Kira, Rebecca, and Sean. 

Bernard was a man of many passions. He dedicated his life to the pursuit of knowledge and understanding, earning a degree in chemistry and working as a chemist. His love for history and music was evident in every aspect of his life, and he found solace and joy in the study of Judaism, particularly in halachic law and Biblical Hebrew.

His commitment to his faith was unwavering, and he found great fulfillment in deepening his understanding of Jewish traditions and teachings. Bernard’s wisdom and insight were a source of inspiration for those around him, and his love for learning was infectious.

Bernard will be remembered for his passionate spirit and unwavering dedication to his family. He was a pillar of strength and support for those he loved, and his absence will be deeply felt by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

The family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to the medical team at North York General Hospital for their compassionate care and support during Bernard’s illness.

Bernard’s legacy of love, wisdom, and compassion will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by his family, friends, and all those whose lives he touched. May his memory be a blessing and may he rest in peace.

Memorial donations may be made to Yeshiva Yesodai Hatorah at (416) 787-1101  (https://yesodeihatorah.ca/) and Feed Israel at 1 (718) 820-7000. (https://www.ifcj.ca/give-today) These organizations were close to Bernard’s heart and supporting them would be a meaningful way to honor his memory.

The unveiling in memory of Bernard David Kay z”l, will take place on Sunday September 6, 2026 at 12:00 p.m. at Pardes Chaim Cemetery, 11818 Bathurst St. Maple – Community Section 2G. Upon entering the cemetery, the section is located on the left-hand side, near the Reflection Pond. Following the unveiling, friends and family are invited to 126 Chelmsford Ave. Toronto, for light refreshments.