Bernard Toplitsky

It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of Bernard Toplitsky on Tuesday, April 27th, 2021. Beloved husband of Ruth for 63 years. Loving father and father-in-law of Jeffrey and Lynn Toplitsky and Sharon Toplitsky and Randy Jacobs. Cherished grandfather of Griffin, Beatrice, Joelle and Eden. Memorial donations may be made to the charity of your choice.

Date of Death: Tuesday, April 27, 2021

Yahrzeit Day: 15 Iyar

Date of Funeral: Thursday, April 29, 2021

Memorial Service Location: Private Family Service

Burial Service Location: Mt. Sinai Cemetery, Workman's Circle section

Shiva Details: Private Shiva

Message of Condolence

Posted on 27.04.2021 - 5:43 PM

Frank Toplitsky

Dear Ruth, Jeffrey, Sharon. My heart is broken. I was devastated when I saw the truncated obituary. I have lost my two brothers now without being able to say goodbye to them or even know what transpired in their last days. They really knew how to alienate. I earned it, but it still hurts. You must know I offer you all my profound sympathies and that I feel the same sense of loss and pain that you do. I am not made of stone. May you know of no more sorrow, My deepest condolences to all your families,

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Posted on 27.04.2021 - 10:01 PM

Linda and Moe Rotman

Dear Ruth and Family, I am so sorry to learn of Bernie's passing. My condolences to the Toplitsky family. I have to say I remember your wedding 63 years ago. I believe it was in June. I was always so fond of the Toplitsky brothers and their wives and I remember my late Dad had a soft spot in his heart for the Toplitsky cousins as well. I hope your many wonderful memories of the years you spent together will help you through this very trying time. Love, Linda (Latner Tucker) and Moe Rotman

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Posted on 27.04.2021 - 10:02 PM

Marty Burke

I'm so sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. My heart goes out to Ruth and the family at this difficult time.

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Posted on 27.04.2021 - 10:26 PM

Frances Weldman

Ruth and Family, I am so sorry to read of Bernie's passing. He was like a ray of sunshine whenever we met. I do wish that Frank had made a gesture of friendship in the last few months, but unfortunately it did not happen. I wish you and your family no further sorrows and that you only have fond memories of Bernie. Sincerely, Frances

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 12:43 AM

Frank and Annabelle Hoffman

Dear Ruthie and family We were saddened to hear of your profound loss. Bernie was a kind soul whose smile brightened the room. May you be comforted among the mourners of Israel.

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 8:14 AM

Mel Kochberg

Dear Ruth and family. Funny how life's journeys can see our paths intersect. Bernie's family and ours lived only 3 houses apart on Beatrice Street. After Linda and I bought our first home on Tanjoe Cr. we were again neighbors with your family only a few homes apart. Then still later Ruth, you and I worked together at Shoppers Drug Mart for several years. I remember Bernie as a quiet respectful warm person. Please accept our sincere condolences. May you have no further sorrow. Mel and Linda Kochberg

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 9:22 AM

Alanna Teitelbaum and Drue Mandel

Dear Sharon, Randy and family, So sorry for your loss. Hoping that your wonderful memories of your Dad, father-in-law and grandfather comfort you in these difficult times. Baruch Dayan HaEmet

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 11:23 AM

Michol Hoffman, Yossi Sapirman, and Allegra Hoffman

Dear Ruthie, Jeffrey, Sharon, Lynn, Randy, Griffin and Beatrice, Joelle and Eden, Our thoughts and hearts are with you. We remember Bernie with warmth and affection. Please know that we are with you in spirit, if not in person. Sending you all lots of love, Mickey, Yossi and Allegra

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 11:54 AM

Marla and Lorne

Dear Ruth, Jeff, and Sharon. Lorne and I wish to express our sincere condolences for your loss. I have fond memories of my Dad and Bernie standing on each other’s driveway, laughing uproariously. We share your sadness at this difficult time. Marla and Lorne

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 12:04 PM

Marla and Lorne

Dear Ruth, Jeff and Sharon. Lorne and I wish to express our sincere condolences for your loss. I fondly recall my Dad and Bernie standing on each other’s driveway, laughing uproariously. We share your sadness and hope the reflection of happy memories will offer comfort. Marla and Lorne

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 4:18 PM

Schecter Family

Sincerest condolences from the Schecter family. We remember your family from Tanjoe Crescent with fondness.

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 4:30 PM

Shep and Janet hoffman

We are so sorry to hear of bernies passing.. look back on all the best of memories with joy and happiness, and he will always be remembered. Barb

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 5:51 PM

Roanne Latner

May his memory be a blessing to you all! Hold onto the memories you hold dear

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 7:09 PM

Elaine & Howard Hoffman

Dear Ruthie and family, We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Bernie. We hope you will be comforted by happy memories from his long life. May they be for a blessing.

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 8:56 PM

Debbie & Wayne Levin & Family

Dear Aunty Ruthy, Jeffrey, Sharon, Lynn, Randy, Griffin and Beatrice, Joelle and Eden. How very sorry we are for Uncle Bernie's passing. What we will always remember is his humour and his warmth and charm. BDE. May his memory be a blessing - we know it will be for us - and may you find comfort with the mourners of Zion.

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 9:31 PM

Jackie Baranowsky

My condolences Sharon, to you and your family. I hope you find comfort in happy memories.

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Posted on 28.04.2021 - 9:39 PM

Jonathan Hoffman

Dear Ruthie, Jeffrey, Sharon, Lynn, Randy, Griffin and Beatrice, Joelle and Eden, Our heartfelt condolences go out to you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bernie was a fun and loving person, and will be greatly missed. Love, Jonathan, Robin and Owen

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 9:19 AM

Leah Finkelstein

Dear Ruth Truly sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved Bernie You were always together and he will be truly missed . May you know of no more sorrow.

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 10:18 AM

Harriet Stein

Ruth, Jeff, and Sharon, My deepest condolences on Bernie's passing. I have many fond memories of him from my childhood and from seeing him downtown when he worked at the Bond Place. I never saw him without a big smile on his face.

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 11:07 AM

Marilyn & Harry Zimmer

Bernie was a warm, funny, kind and sincere man whose love and pride in his family was always apparent. So sorry for your loss. May your memories from your years together comfort you at this difficult time. Much love, Marilyn & Harry

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 11:12 AM

Shirley Rotkop

Dear Ruth, Jeff, Sharon. I was so sad to hear of Bernie's passing. He was a great guy! I have wonderful memories of him. My heartfelt condolences.

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 11:20 AM

Charisse Schweitzer

Dear Ruth, Jeff & Sharon. I'm so sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. My deepest sympathies. He always had an engaging smile on his face and a joke or two to share. I hope the beautiful memories of him bring you comfort at this most difficult time.

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 11:46 AM

Lorraine Fairbloom

Sharon, I'm so sorry for your loss... sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Hoping your special and treasured memories will always offer comfort and support.

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 1:02 PM

Michael and Merle Weinstein

Dear Ruth, our heartfelt condolences on Bernie’s passing. We will always remember our many shared dinners, outings, and vacations . Sharon, Jeffrey, Randy, Lynn and all four grandchildren, we share memories of all Bernie’s intelligence and humorous stories. Michael & Merle Weinstein

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 5:56 PM

Terry Brodie

Dear Family , I am very sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. I want to extend my deepest condolences to you all. That is a photo of Bernie that I remember well. Bernie was a very nice man, and am glad to have known him. On behalf of my family, our deepest sympathies and may time and memories help you heal. Terry Brodie (daughter of Pearl Brodie)

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Posted on 29.04.2021 - 7:27 PM

Robert Geffen

We are so sorry to hear this sad news. Bernie was always so warm and friendly whenever we would see him. My condolences to your family. Cousins Brenda and Robbie

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Posted on 30.04.2021 - 11:01 AM

Murray Rich

May he rest in peace

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Posted on 30.04.2021 - 11:08 AM

Murray Rich

When we met back in the 40"s, Bernard was Bernie & I was Moishe. His brother Max was in the Armed forces and his brother Frank played drums from the top floor of the house. We were close friends until my family moved North from that great street. He was truly "one of the Boys" & will be missed.

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Posted on 30.04.2021 - 11:33 AM

HOWARD AARON HOFFMAN

Dear Ruth, Jeffrey, Lynn, Sharon and Randy So sorry to hear the sad news of Bernie"s passing. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed. Sending you lots of love in this time of sorrow. Howard and Diane Hoffman and Family

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Posted on 30.04.2021 - 10:13 PM

Es & John Burt & family

Our sincere condolences Sharon ,Randy, Joelle & Eden. Also to your dear Mother Sharon. We hope all the lovely memories you have will bring you comfort. Lots of Hugs?

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Posted on 03.05.2021 - 1:12 PM

Rhonda Chernoff (Geffen)

Dear Ruth and Family. We were sad to hear about Bernie's passing and extend our deepest condolences to everyone. We will always remember Bernie with fondness. He was a very nice man with a great sense of humour. May his memory be a blessing. Rhonda Chernoff(Geffen), Lorrie Geffen and Families.

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Posted on 04.05.2021 - 12:14 PM

Jean Ruth Yashinsky

Hi Ruth: So very very sorry to learn of Bernie's passing. He was such a gitte nishoma. May he rest in peace. Best regards, Jean Yashinsky

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Posted on 17.05.2021 - 5:28 PM

Harry Haber

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've known Bernie for about 50 years. He was always happy, laughing and joking around. We always had a great time with Bernie and Ruthie!

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Posted on 18.05.2021 - 12:32 PM

Ilse and Marvin Litvack

Our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved Bernie z’l. May he Rest In Peace. Ilse and Marvin

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