Phyllis Wharton

Phyllis died peacefully in her sleep, just days before her 77^th birthday, after an exceptionally hard-fought battle with lung cancer. Phyllis is survived by her loving children Charlie and Avi, daughter-in-law Rixi, loving ex-husband George, and adoring grandchildren Noah, Maddy and Miles. Phyllis is also survived by a veritable horde of close and loving friends, spanning 60+ years of careful accumulation and curation. To say “she will be missed” is a wild understatement.

Memorial donations may be made to Princess Margaret Hospital (https://thepmcf.ca/).

The family will be observing Shiva at 2 Rosewell Ave., Toronto, M4R 1Z7. Shiva visitors are welcome on Thursday following the interment and from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., and on Friday from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.

Date of Death: Tuesday, November 15, 2022

Yahrzeit Day: 21 Cheshvan

Date of Funeral: Thursday, November 17, 2022

Time of Funeral: 11:00 AM

Memorial Service Location: Steeles Memorial Chapel Service

Burial Service Location: Bathurst Lawn Memorial Park - Ivansker Mutual Benefit Society Section

Shiva Details: Shiva visitors are welcome on Thursday following the interment and from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., and on Friday from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.

Shiva Location: 2 Rosewell Ave., Toronto, M4R 1Z7

Message of Condolence

Posted on 15.11.2022 - 3:19 PM

Maxine Katz

Charlie, Rixi, Noah and Maddy: I was so sad to hear about the passing of your mom and grandma. Your reflections about her are very touching. I hope your memories of her and the stories that will be shared by her friends give you some comfort at this time. Love from Maxine, Andy & David.

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Posted on 15.11.2022 - 5:11 PM

Paul Weingarten and Sharon Gerstein

My cousin and a I go back a long way. From the time we were young kids we spent so many wonderful times together. If it wasn’t for Phyllis tutoring me I would never have passed high school English. In later years Sharon and I often ran into her at downtown restaurants. It was always so nice seeing her. She will be greatly missed.

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Posted on 15.11.2022 - 5:19 PM

Sam Feuer

I was sad to hear of Phyllis' passing. Phyllis was a bright, intelligent woman with an amazingly sharp wit and sense of humour. And during the time I worked with her, there was almost never a day that passed without Phyllis talking about her children, and pletzing with pride in the process. My deepest condolences to the family.

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Posted on 15.11.2022 - 5:29 PM

Richard Coulter

We're thinking of all the ones that loved Phyllis, and we are sending our love and sympathy to all of you. Love Richard and Joanne

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Posted on 15.11.2022 - 5:46 PM

Ian and Daniel Stoppard

Charlie, Rixi, Noah and Maddy: Our sincerest condolences to you and the rest of your family on the passing of your mom and grandmother. Our thoughts are with you. Love Ian and Daniel

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Posted on 15.11.2022 - 6:23 PM

Gill Family

We are sorry for your loss.

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Posted on 15.11.2022 - 11:16 PM

Motti Kopstick

Phyllis was a dear cousin and friend. Whenever we met, she was calm and soft-spoken, so comforting in contrast to an otherwise noisy and busy world. She always had time to get together. Phyllis had great attitude and fought to get better. She was good hearted and will be very much missed. May her good spirit live on in the family and friends that she touched.

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 10:22 AM

Eva McDonald

Phyllis was my mentor and friend. I've collected so much wisdom and bon mots from this fierce lady, and if forced to describe her in one word, it would be: formidable. She was formidable in strength, intelligence, sharp wit, and love and protection of her family. This news is too sad and is a loss for a great many people. Rest in peace and power, Phyll. You will never be forgotten.

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 10:49 AM

Janine Cutler

Dear Charlie, Rixi, Noah, and Maddy My heart and thoughts are with you at your time of loss. I know from Rixi that you had a wonderful relationship with your mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother. Love Janine Love Janine

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 11:41 AM

Sue Adorjan

Sincere sympathy to her family. Phyllis was my first "boss" at U of T ... she was a wonderful mentor. Many fond memories will not be forgotten.

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 11:50 AM

Jay Waterman

I am so sorry to hear of Phyllis's passing. My deepest condolences on your loss.

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 1:11 PM

Sara Belmont

Dear Charlie and Avi and the whole family, sending warm condolences. So sorry to hear this. I remember meeting your mom years ago and she was strong, warm, and lovely. May her memory be a blessing.

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 1:48 PM

Kathy Rottmann

Charlie,Rixi,Noah and Maddy We know how dificult it is to loose a person you love We are very sorry for your loss. Take care Andrew and Kathy Rottmann

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 2:01 PM

Kay Bowen

Phyllis and I worked together at Geac and had some interesting road trips. She was very witty but always kind and very proud of her family.

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 5:02 PM

Marianne Martosh

very sorry for your loss. She will be greatly missed, Marianne

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Posted on 16.11.2022 - 8:05 PM

Ellise Weingarten Gasner

May your memories bring you strength and comfort during the difficult days ahead. Phyllis always had the best laugh. and was always warm and welcoming when we visited with her. She will be missed.

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Posted on 17.11.2022 - 1:49 PM

Elaine Pantel

My deepest condolences to the family. I will especially cherish our weekly Film Club sessions which included Harriet. Phyllis was always optimistic energy and had a perpetual warm smile.

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Posted on 17.11.2022 - 8:48 PM

Gail Katari

My deepest condolences for your loss. May you find comfort in eachother at this difficult time. Remember and smile, as I do, Phyllis's amazing laugh and warm heart.

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Posted on 18.11.2022 - 10:08 AM

Sandy Lemm

My wife and I met Phyllis years back at the Toronto Western Hospital Pulmonary Rehab Clinic. Phyllis was so warm and gracious. She always had a smile, and a lovely sense of humour. So sorry to hear of her passing. We were fortunate to have known her.

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Posted on 19.11.2022 - 10:25 AM

Mike and Janna Nadler

Dear Charlie and Family. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. May your mother's memory be a blessing for you, your children and your family for all time.

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Posted on 20.11.2022 - 1:39 PM

Brian J. E. Van Dommele

I had the honour of working with Phyllis Wharton for many years at Geac, and I was saddened when she left. She was a very kind, generous, thoughtful and wise woman, and it was an honour to be her associate. She gave me her support and thoughtfulness all during the time that we worked together, and she also gave me wise words of support and wisdom when she left as well. She was one of the very best people with whom I have had the privilege of working, and she will always be remembered and cherished. I worked with Phyllis Wharton for many years, and I was saddened when she left Geac; she was a very kind, generous, thoughtful and wise woman, and it was an honour to be her associate. May she rest in peace; she will always be remembered. For George and the family, please accept my utmost sympathies and prayers, and may the memories of Phyllis give you peace, healing and joy.

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